I am a somewhat small person, only about 5 feet tall. People keep telling me I look like a college-going kid. This might also be because I wear very little make-up but that discussion is for another time. Anyhow, people keep assuming that I am younger than my real age. Most of the time it is extremely flattering! There are times, however, that looking younger is a definite disadvantage.
That happens when people talk down to me assuming I am some kid. A few years ago, my younger sister's friend tried to talk sweet at me,"Kis class mein hoooo?" More recently, a lot of my colleagues underestimate me (to their own disadvantage) thinking I am some new joinee fresh from college. Sometimes it gets a little tiring having to prove my worth again and again and again. Especially when a more serious/mature/older looking person gets taken seriously just because. I might be smarter than them, sharper than them, my suggestions might be more insightful. But with every new acquaintance, I have to go through that period of earning my equity. Why am I complaining today? Because it just got somewhat extra difficult with one colleague. But that too is a story for another day.
I really should not complain. I have got without trying what women the world over spend millions to achieve. I should be grateful for this while it lasts. Also, having to prove my mettle again and again keeps me sharp. It doesn't let me get complacent. Finally, it is a treat when people realise how much they have been undervaluing me. Their expressions are classic!
1 comment:
There is one more advantage in it as you are considered younger you get to know the other side of person in front with ease as he is not that much prepared because of his biases.
But the best advantage still remains what you have mentioned at end.
The ever green bliss of youthfulness and cheerfulness.
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